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- TIP #1: Be Specific On Your Invitations.
- Tip #2. Include the memo on your wedding website.
- Tip #3: Do a little extra work on your RSVP cards.
- TIP #4: Blame your venue or the space.
On the Invitation Though some people avoid it, Swann says there’s absolutely nothing wrong with stating clearly that the occasion is adults-only. You can include this on the main invite or the RSVP card. “This is an adult-only occasion.”
Whether it’s due to budget restrictions, venue capacity or simply personal preference, child-free weddings are not nearly as uncommon as they once used to be. There are plenty of legitimate reasons to opt for an adult-only reception, and the decision is completely yours.
It’s entirely up to the couple whether or not children are invited to the wedding. Decide whether you want little ones there or would prefer an adults-only celebration, and then put your foot down. That means no exceptions.
So, what is a polite way to say no extra guests? The best way to politely inform guests that they can not bring a plus one is to have a line on your RSVP card which says “We have reserved [X] seats in your honor”. Then have a line below that says ” ___ of x will attend” .
- Who’s hosting.
- The request to come to the wedding.
- The names of the couple.
- The date and time.
- The location.
- Reception information.
- Dress code.
- Separate RSVP card.
Do your own math “A general overall percentage between 75-85 percent of wedding guests usually attend.” The breakdown: 85 percent of local guests, 55 percent of out-of-town guests, and 35 percent of destination wedding guests will show up, Buckley said.
No-shows are a risk at any wedding, but particularly if you don’t invite children. That’s because if the babysitter doesn’t turn up, parents won’t have a choice but to stay at home with them. Guests may also end up running late if their children become upset at having to leave Mum and Dad.
And if they do not enjoy the presence of children at a wedding or otherwise, then they definitely should not feel obligated to include them in the event. This doesn’t make the bride and groom rude, heartless, insensitive or inconsiderate: They just don’t enjoy a party that involves children.
Often, these young children mean quite a lot to the couple getting married, so they may choose to include them in their big day. There are several reasons for opting for no kids at your wedding. The most common reason is that it often places pressure on an already-tight budget.
People You Should Invite to Your Wedding It’s rude to invite people to a pre-wedding event (especially one that includes gifts!) and then not invite them to the wedding itself. The only exception is an office bridal shower. Anyone else who helped you celebrate before the big day should be welcome at the event.
If you decide to not invite the family member, have a response prepared in case they ask for a reason. “We’re paying for the wedding on our own, so we just don’t have the ability to invite everyone. We appreciate your understanding.” “Our venue has limited space for guests, so we’re keeping the wedding very intimate.
Parents on both sides need to add their wish lists, which should include family members as well as their own friends and colleagues. … When the bride’s parents are paying for the wedding, it’s customary that they be allowed to invite more guests.
- Put A Note On Your Wedding Website. Something to the effect of “We’re so excited to celebrate this day with our nearest and dearest, and are hoping to keep the guest list limited. …
- Make It Clear On The RSVP. …
- Consider Opening Up The Reception.
A person who has a significant other, fiancé, or husband/wife is part of a social unit. They are invited together and this is not considered a plus one.